The lesson is that your friends chose either Cymbidium or Anthurium orchids - they are the best for cut flowers, although these will usually only last 4-6 weeks at most, so the ones you have clearly have your determination and genetic strength for survival. Did you know that the word orchid is derived from the greek word for testicle as its roots have a similar shape to ....well there you go - every day is a school day!
Joy is right about the origin of the name. There is a question in Trivial Pursuit - what does a polyorchid man have three of? The answer being testicles!
Thanks Dee I did find this useful and can relate to a lot of what she says - especially the bit about the propsect of chemotherapy being more devastating than the original diagnosis and operation. So you're forgiven for reading the Mail - (actually sometimes some of their women's stuff is quite good).
I lie in the bath. A thought, not yet formed, tries to surface. Gently but firmly, I suppress it. I am not ready for this thought. Not yet. I am too busy.
I have a major national event to run. So many months in the planning, it has to be perfect.
Soon the big day is upon us. It couldn’t have run smoother. I am singled out for praise. I get flowers and champagne.
Later, I sink back in the bath.
Now. The thought can surface.
My hand strays to my right breast; tentative, exploratory.
Hard bit.
Normal? The lumpiness of age and hormones?
No. This is different.
‘How long has that been there?’ my husband asks.
‘I don’t know.’
A week? A month? A year? I don’t know. Has it always been there, waiting for someone to speak its name?
They process you quickly when you mention a lump; mammogram, ultrasound and biopsy within the hour.
‘Come back next week. Bring a friend.’
When four specialists walk into the results clinic, we know.
What can possibly be good about having cancer?
You feel the strength of people’s love. You see the NHS at its best. You wander slowly. You notice and appreciate.
You realise that all we have is now. And now is wonderful.
The lesson is that your friends chose either Cymbidium or Anthurium orchids - they are the best for cut flowers, although these will usually only last 4-6 weeks at most, so the ones you have clearly have your determination and genetic strength for survival.
ReplyDeleteDid you know that the word orchid is derived from the greek word for testicle as its roots have a similar shape to ....well there you go - every day is a school day!
Was thinking not so much of me but of the people who've been through chemotherapy and come out the other side.
ReplyDeleteAs for orchids - I had no idea! Better not mention them when I'm in Yianni's.
Joy is right about the origin of the name. There is a question in Trivial Pursuit - what does a polyorchid man have three of? The answer being testicles!
ReplyDeleteQuite by chance have just spotted this which you may or may not find useful
ReplyDelete(I hasten to add i'm not a Daily Mail reader - there was a link to it on the Leicester mercury website, honest!)
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1278218/Coronation-Street-star-Sally-Whittaker-tells-playing-character-breast-cancer-led-shattering-discovery.html
Thanks Dee I did find this useful and can relate to a lot of what she says - especially the bit about the propsect of chemotherapy being more devastating than the original diagnosis and operation. So you're forgiven for reading the Mail - (actually sometimes some of their women's stuff is quite good).
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